Betsy Eves, Author at Betsy Eves Group

VA Family Support: Addressing the Gaps for Modern Veteran Families

"It starts with a family, not a veteran." That’s the first thing I wish someone had told me before Dave, my husband, began his PTSD treatment program. From the very…

By Betsy Eves November 17, 2024Betsy Eves AdvocacyAccountability in Veteran Therapy, Caregiver Resources for Veterans, Challenges for Veteran Families, Family-Inclusive Care for Veterans, Healing After EMDR Therapy, Military Caregiver Advocacy, Modern Veteran Families, PTSD Treatment Challenges, VA Family Support, Veteran Mental Health SupportNo Comments

The Internal Battle We Face As Caregivers

When you marry into the military, whether you realize it or not, you take on the internal battle we face as caregivers—a role that often feels like service of its…

By Betsy Eves October 12, 2024Betsy Eves AdvocacyFamily Resilience, mental health, military caregivers, self-care, veteran families

Taking a few minutes to enjoy a cup of coffee and a good book on the porch became one of those small acts of joy for me. It’s not about escaping everything but creating space to breathe. What can you do for yourself today, even if it's for a few minutes, to reconnect with a piece of yourself?

Finding Joy as a Military Caregiver: 3 Small Steps

Finding joy as a military caregiver can feel nearly impossible amidst the constant challenges and responsibilities that often feel all-consuming. I've been in those trenches, where every day felt like…

By Betsy Eves September 19, 2024Betsy Eves Advocacyfinding joy, mental health, mental wellness, military caregivers, self-care, thriving

I Filed a Protection Order Against My Suicidal Husband — Here’s the Truth You Won’t Hear During Suicide Prevention Month

It’s September—Suicide Prevention Month. Social media is flooded with feel-good campaigns. The slogans are everywhere: #FaceTheFight, #YouMatter, and #EndTheStigma. But you know what? It’s bullshit. The reality of suicide prevention…

By Betsy Eves September 11, 2024Betsy Eves Advocacysuicide prevention, suicide prevention month2 Comments

Rethinking Reintegration: A Personal Reflection on Military Life, Separation, and True Transformation

Reintegration. It’s a word that has followed me throughout my life as a military spouse, trailing behind every deployment and separation like an unwelcome shadow. But as I’ve come to…

By Betsy Eves August 23, 2024Betsy Eves Advocacy, ReflectionsMilitary Spouse Life, PTSD treatment, reintegration

Reflections: Advocacy in Action

Have you ever read something that just didn’t sit right with you? That moment when you come across information that’s not only incorrect but is being used in a way…

By Betsy Eves July 10, 2024Betsy Eves Advocacy, Reflectionsadvocacy, empathetic advocacy, reflections

Why Setting Family Boundaries Is Essential for Your Well-Being

Have you ever felt obligated to maintain close ties with someone just because you share DNA? What if I told you that your mental and emotional well-being is more important…

By Betsy Eves June 29, 2024Betsy Eves Advocacyfamily dynamics, mental health, mental wellness, self-care, setting boundaries1 Comment

2024 Letter from the Founder

In a heartfelt reflection on the past year's journey, Betsy Eves shares her gratitude and the accomplishments of the Betsy Eves Group in their mission to support military families. From…

By Betsy Eves March 4, 2024Betsy Eves AdvocacyBetsy Eves, Letter from the Founder

Behind Closed Doors: Military Caregivers and the Hidden Cycle of Abuse

Explore the often-hidden cycle of abuse in military caregiving. This essential guide delves into the complexities military families face, including domestic violence and its impact. Offering insights into PTSD, TBI, and coping strategies, it's a vital resource for understanding and addressing the unique challenges in the lives of military caregivers and their families.

By Betsy Eves November 14, 2023Betsy Eves Advocacyabuse, caregivers, domestic violence, Family Resilience, intimate partner violence, mental health, military caregivers, veteran families

The Invisible Wounds of Suicide Prevention

In the intricate tapestry of military life, the term "resilience" stands out as a beacon, often celebrated as the hallmark of those who serve and their loved ones. But as…

By Betsy Eves September 13, 2023Betsy Eves AdvocacyFamily Resilience, mental health, Post-Traumatic Healing, service-related injuries, suicide prevention, veteran families